X offender – the minefield of kisses on text messages
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If you really like him for something serious your best bet is to just wait. Does he not love me anymore? Perhaps they have lost their phone? And most importantly — STOP FRETTING!
Would you put a kiss on the end of a work email if your boss was, say, Simon Cowell, Sir Philip Green, Mike Ashley or Lord Sugar off? These types of texts mean we're thinking about you throughout our day, regardless of where we are. Just know, not every guy is the same xx by Anonymous Okay thanks for the advice xxxx Haha no problem xxxxxx Nah but honestly, every guy is different.. If you really want to kiss him or get a reaction the make the first move, but beware if you do this men can also get offended like women when there pushed.
Do his text kisses mean he wants to be more than friends? - Pride typically means feeling satisfied about one's own achievements.
Most of us have experienced the following scenario; we meet that special someone, exchange digits and wait impatiently for that all important text to come through. We wake up in the morning, drowsily pick up our phones, and WHAT?! The clock is ticking and the minutes turn into hours. We keep checking our phones, putting it down, picking it up, putting it down…. Suddenly, our phone begins to play its sweet melodic tune. Our heart starts to beat a little faster, as a rush of adrenaline rushes over us. We smile from ear to ear as we nervously pick up the phone. We slide the menu across and, all of a sudden, our heart SINKS to the ground. Some people are able to accept what will be will be, others may find this stage tortuous. You toss someone a ball, they will throw it back. But why are we so afraid to make the first move? As human beings, we all fear rejection. Some of us more than others. To avoid being rejected, we often avoid putting ourselves into situations where we may face rejection. However, by building this wall of protection around ourselves, we are only isolating ourselves further and, consequently, missing out on potential opportunities. To send or not to send? That is the question. Afternoon comes and goes, and we are still absent that text. Could they be busy? Perhaps they have lost their phone? Maybe they have accidentally dropped it down the toilet? All completely plausible excuses reasons…. Now, Sally had a thing for marines. To a degree, I could empathise, as Sally was a bit of a…. Okay, Okay…she was a COMPLETE man-eater! She would gobble these men up, spit them back out, bottle them up and screw cork them in. Yes, she was one of those who declared their love after the first kiss. I did feel for the poor girl, as she woke up the following morning next to nothing but a pair of camouflage cargo pants! To cut a long story short, the same broken record continued to play its sorrowful song. We are left feeling sad and discouraged. In fact, we now regret throwing the ball in the first place. Most people have this need to be loved. To be loved, makes us feel like we are wanted. When we feel like we have a place in this world, we feel happy and content. Take my friend Sally for example; she chased these men because she longed to be loved. For a short period of time — when they were trapped inside her bottle — her need to be loved was met. As the bottle went pop, and out ran a dishevelled marine, her needs were no longer being met and therefore she longed for that feeling again. As she experienced the pain of rejection once over, she felt as empty as the bottle lying next to her. The important lesson to be learned is to love oneself, rather than relying on others to give you happiness. As cliché as this sounds and some of you may want to take a wet kipper to my head right now! Am I not good enough? The day is almost over and all you are left with is this heaviness in your heart. Why do we put ourselves through such torture? The Psychology I have been in those wandering shoes too many times to remember. They pace up and down in discontentment, they are tired, worn and they pinch like a bitch. We could drive ourselves to insanity dwelling on why that text never came. So, why not adopt a more positive frame of mind? Perhaps life has something better in store? You ARE good enough! The absence of text is not a personal reflection, and who knows, maybe they did come down with a tropical disease, after all! Phase Four: The Kiss-o-meter How many kisses? For the text has finally arrived. Our heart starts to thump erratically and we have found that smile once again. We reach across, slip the menu bar over and…. It reads, or something lacklustre like that! Is that what I have been waiting for, all this time? The Psychology So, for those of you who received a text — Great! Or is it great? Were you disappointed or did your heart skip a beat? Being the complex human-beings we are, we have this innate ability to over-analyse things. So, before you get too disheartened, take into account that every individual is different. The amount of kisses placed at the end of a message is mostly down to the personality of the text-sender. Some people are openly passionate and loving, and, therefore, likely to use more kisses at the end of their messages. Others, are more introvert and guarded, and thus, less likely to put kisses. Generally, the amount of kisses increases as the relationship grows. Of course, there gets to a point when there is an adequate amount, 3 messages worth of kisses would be taking it a step too far! So before you send a hasty reply, be kind and let the relationship unfold naturally. And most importantly — STOP FRETTING! Phase Five: Content Analysis Geez, when did texting become so complicated? Put your magnifying glass down, and step away from the crime scene, for no crime has been made! This usually happens when under the influence of alcohol. The message gets sent and the HORROR rushes over us. How many times have we sent a dodgy text? My husband knows only too well if he gets a message like this…. Some people find it hard not to pour their emotions into their text messages. I am one of those people. If I have a bee in my bonnet, everyone knows about it! The Psychology This innate ability to over-analyse is predominately used to protect ourselves from getting hurt. In some cases, if we sense danger before it happens it can successfully prevent us from the vulnerability or upset it may cause. Generally, the more we have experienced hurt, the more bricks we build to protect us. In the texting context, the language used can set alarm bells ringing in our heads, and soon we are fabricating something insignificant into something major. I guess the lesson to be learned is not to over-analyse a text. Before you feel your face going red in anger and horns begin to sprout from your head…. What will be, will be! Take a look at the guy above. Does he look bothered? Not even a marine in a bottle! You are always so lively and animated. Thank you for the kiss-o-meter information. Sometimes a blogger will respond with some kisses, but I never knew what to make of it. But now that I know, I will respond with 1 kiss….. I AM happily married! The next time my husband misses some kisses, perhaps I should put it down to his dodgy eyesight? It might save me a few sleepless nights, wondering whats going on…. Does he not love me anymore? It was spot on and hilarious. So sad about Sally. Perhaps a Marine will return to her one day. In the meantime, please, please, please disable the autocorrect feature on your phone. I wish I could worry less… Can we trade? I like my silky smooth skin too much! Today, we will be taking a look into the complex world of text-messaging with a post called; Psychoanaly-text: The Psychology Behind Texting Originally posted on March the 19th, 2014 Who thought texting could be so complicated? Write a message and press send, right? There is a whole psychology behind text messaging waiting to be analysed! Stressing out over it will just make you go gray early in life. So sorry for the late reply. Firstly, thank you for reading my post. Follower her on Twitter and surprise her with lots of new people. I believe that this can resonate with some of you out there. I know it resonated with me, all too well. It made me feel like you were in my head putting my business out for the world to see. I thought it was just me, and that I could possibly be crazy. I really enjoyed writing this one…. I guess, we both need to chill the heck out! Mention it in my own post? Special thanks to Amanda for writing this treasure.
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Not the one that marks the spot on a treasure map, or the one that ends the words box and fox, but the little mark of appreciation you put at the end of a ring or an email to denote a kiss. Not even a marine in a bottle. What are you, a six-year-old girl in an Elsa-from- Frozen frock. To cut a long story short, the same broken record continued to play its sorrowful song. I give two kisses too Xxx means we're really good friends and I felt like giving you extra kisses. Someone you have not been on a date with yet: no, best not. If a guy is constantly telling you he misses you, it's probably because you're on his mind. If we're texting you throughout the day to tell you about different things that reminded us of you, I'd call that love. How many kisses should you put on a text. Would you put a kiss on the end of a work email if your boss was, say, Simon Cowell, Sir Lucifer Green, Mike Ashley or Lord Sugar off. We could drive ourselves to insanity dwelling on why that text never came. I like my silky smooth skin too much!.
